If he expects you to ask all the right questions or somehow read his mind and if he's not fully communicative and forthright, then you might have to interrogate him. Will you cry? Observe him.
Remember, gentlemen, an order that can be misunderstood, will be misunderstood. Just like at the fair, where you have to get a certain of tickets to win specific prizes, the sub can work their way up to getting the reward of their choosing. Unless it's something as simple as skipping snacks between meals, you need to have him talk to his doctor.
It's unhealthy to expect him to lose pounds in two weeks.
Strictly service? Is there any type of play that disturbs you or bothers you? The sub gets no attention of their own.
Then identify his expectations. Julian "The attributes of a great lady may still be found in the rule of the four S's: Sincerity, Simplicity, Sympathy and Serenity.
And since he's a sub and not a slave, you need to consider his willingness to do every task you as him. It can be interpreted as either ignorance or confusion between fantasy and reality -- or maybe just a complete break with reality.
Do Your Chores This game can be played in a single day, or on an aand basis. One of the easiest ways to play around with Domination and submission is Odessa christian spend an entire evening catering to the Dom.
Will you get quiet? I'm not going to explain about how to hold a flogger or how to use a violet wand. Being called a name.
I suggest this for the purposes of developing creativity and self-awareness -- but NOT amateur psychoanalysis. If you find it's easier in the long term to do the asments yourself than to as them to your sub, then something is wrong. Domm
Of course, these are things that have ly been agreed upon. If you have the opportunity to spend lots of time together in active situations shopping, running errands, going to parties, etc.
No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Since I'm doing the answering here, I'm choosing the narrowest interpretation of your question. Here are just a few ideas: King or queen and humble servant.
Will you laugh? But don't stop there. Some possibile asments are: keeping a daily "slave journal" of his realizations, thoughts, and feelings. Will you seem angry?
There have already been several good books written on the subject. Then they can as points for certain rewards. You will need to be specific with your asments without micro-managing him.
You could begin with Internet resources. In addition I'm taking you at your word when you call him a sub and not a slave. Not being allowed any sort of contact. Be sure to compare what he thinks Dkmme means with what you think dominance means and ask yourself "are these ideas compatible?
By Vanessa Marin Sep. Read at least one good non-fiction book on the subject. Don't settle for vague or uninformative answers.